Grief is a funny word that, in my option has no true definition. One can grieve over so many things. Loss of a job, loved one, relationship, friendships, pets, a former life style, your health, trouble, the list just goes on. And how long does one grieve? What's allowable and when do you realize that you really need to get over it? When I started dating, serious dating in my early 20's, I always have said, "if something were to happen to you, I'd be sad and heart broken. But if anything ever happened to my little brother, I don't think I'll ever recover from it." Well, I am living in those words. Among us siblings, we always thought our brother Bill would be the first to go. He had a problem with years of alcoholism, substance abuse and just a reckless life. We had always dreaded the day that we would get that call. I was the one that had to make that call on May 31st to his children, my sister Polly and my brother Tom and to other close family m...
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ReplyDeleteI'm here and can't figure a damn thing out. But I will.....my crusty rusty brain will get this thing up and running.
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